A small
group of preschoolers was sitting at a table waiting for the afternoon snack.
A boy
said to one Indian girl who is his peer, "Your color is black."
Teacher D who was at bathroom changing another child overheard and stepped in and asked, "What color is Ms. Deidre?"
Deidre
is another teacher in the classroom who was sitting near him.
The boy looked at Ms. Deidre and said without hesitation, "Black."
Teacher
D asked again, "What is my color?", standing by the door of bathroom.
The
child responded immediately, "Brown."
Teacher
D continued asked, "What color is Ms. Sara?", I was putting cots in the closet and standing by the door of the closet. The closet is next to the bathroom.
Everyone
was attracted by the conversation and listened to the dialogue. The boy looked
at me and looked at teacher D, hesitated.
Teacher
D asked again, "What color is Ms. Sara?"
The boy
slowly with lower voice said, "White."
The
conversation stopped suddenly. No further dialogue. The air of the classroom
was freezing at the moment and silent. Children and teachers looked at me and
teacher D. None of us say any more word. The silent had made me thinking there was a problem. If the dialogue kept going on
toword more other people in the classroom, I would not feel the issue.Teacher D is an American African dyed
with gold hair. My skin color is dark yellow without any make-up. My color is much
similar with the color of teacher D. The Indian girl's color is dark brown, lighter than Ms. Deidre's.
I was
thinking how the boy identified me as white at the moment. How should I respond the dialogue? I felt something there related prejudice with race and did not know
how to react at the moment and to make it a learning moment. I have been in
teaching and diversity program for years. I have learned about child
development and the significant influences adult relationships
have on children's social, emotional, and cognitive growth and the forming of
social identities. So, what happened to me at that moment? I experienced a hard
time of separating my personal self from my professional identity about issues
related to diversity. I was dull.
The
child is from a Caucasian family, turned 3-years-old by the week of the
dialogue. Children looked the faces of people around them and developed the
identity starting at infant age. “The concept of race is a socially defined
construct used as a way to divide people into groups ranked as superior and
inferior”(Derman-Sparks and Olsen Edwards, 2010, p.77). The child has received
the concept of race most likely by his observation on people around. I do not
think his teachers and family had taught him about the racial identity. He made
a prejudice based on the colors of people by putting me in his group and the
Indian girl in the Africa American group. Race in the scientific consensus has
no biological basis- we are all one race, the human race. (Derman-Sparks and
Olsen Edwards, 2010). Thinking back the scenario, it is important that making
the racial identity activity as a part of the preschool curriculum. It will
help children as well as teachers learning the truth in an anti-bias way and develop their positive
identity.
Reference
Derman-Sparks,
L., and Olsen Edwards, J. (2010). Anti-bias education for young children and
ourselves. Washington, D.C.:
National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC).
Hello Sara,
ReplyDeleteAs early childhood educators we never know when we will encounter teachable moments. This was truly a teachable moment, it was an opportunity to discuss the traits that all of the people in question had in common and it was an opportunity to teach the child about different shades and colors, which would have cleared the air. Hoffman (2011) states that "We have to both help that child learn something new about how the world works, and also protect the child who's coming in who might feel really insulted or feel hurt by that kind of a comment" Laureate Education, Inc., 2011).
References
Laureate Education, Inc. (2011). Strategies for working with diverse children: Learning about fairness: Culture, language, and economic class. Baltimore, MD: Author
I think it is good that the child wanted to explore his curiosity about race and differences and that it was encouraged. Do you think the nature of the conversation was proactive? In retrospect, how would you have helped to facilitate the dialogue differently? I like that you mention that "we are one race- the human race." Despite all our individual differences, which are important to acknowledge and help grow, we all share similarities and have the same basic needs.
ReplyDeleteAloha Sara,
ReplyDeleteMy personality combined with the time I've spent on this planet make the comments children make on race funny sometimes. I have to fight to keep a strait face even with the most egregious comments. Kids will discover, if we lead them in the right direction, we are all human. Change will not happen over night and we can't expect it. However, letting people be responsible and respectful is a big plus.
Sara,
ReplyDeleteI wonder if the little boy had no idea what "your color" should be and said "white" because he now felt his innocent curiosity in discovering his classmates and the wonderful, unique things about them had been called into scrutiny as something negative. "We have to both help that child learn something new about how the world works, and also protect the child who's coming in who might feel really insulted or feel hurt by that kind of a comment" (Laureate Education, Inc., 2011). This would have been a great opportunity to have taught that child and others that race/color/however you want to describe another is nothing to be taken personally and always an opportunity to teach our youth about the wonderful differences we all have in so many different ways.
You are so right: "Race in the scientific consensus has no biological basis- we are all one race, the human race" (Wang, S. 2014) Terrific post.
Beth